Day in and day out, I hear women complain about men. Men are men. If they were women, I wouldn't want one. LOL. For many years, I've read everything I could get my hands on pertaining to male psychology. The secret men hide from women, is that they are just as special and unique as any woman can be.
Men are so different from women, and yet many of them and many women never fully realize just how far our differences take us. Men experience thoughts and feelings differently than women do. Our brains are actually constructed differently. Men communicate differently and often when they try to communicate with a woman they wind up being punished for it in someway and remember not to make that mistake again. When women actually listen to what men have to say with the understanding that men really do want to communicate with us, a gap is successfully bridged.
We have to remember that the same word can mean different things to different people and even more so when a man communicates with a woman. If we view the men in our lives through a negative filter, we may actually miss a blessing more rewarding than we ever realized possible.
Good luck with that.